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Posted By: goran | Date: 8/21/05 4:24 a.m. | |
In Response To: Also not going to resist the arguement (Cpt. Sqweky) : Dude, you have never raised children, have you? If you give a child
I haven't raised children and one day I will. Giving unconditional love is very easily confused with being a wuss that accepts everything, that's not the case.
If your child wants to act like a brat and cry whenever he doesn't get his way, let him. You have standards, and one of them may be that crying is not a tool for getting things. Even though you have this standard, you still respect your childs choice of a strategy to gain what he wants, so you let him cry, but you don't give him what he wants (and you don't comfort him), that would be to encourage bad behaivor. Instead you let your child discover by itself what works and what doesn't. You let him choose his life and become an independant person that chooses his own view of life. You'll teach your child, but you won't force it on him. Naturally, he'll respect you for setting boundaries (where you ignore him) and for the rewards and attention you give to him when he behaves right. -goran
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